Note: this question needs to be solved with both Islamic and scientific informations
Asalam-o-alaikum Dear Members!!
aaj mai yaha pe buhut ahem sawal k bare mei pochna chahte hu jesske jawab buhut authentic and accurate accroding to the sheriah hona chahye...
I want to ask about Razaat yani razaaye rishta.. jess mei razaaye maa ya phir razaaye bacha hota hain jesse koi aurat aapna doodh pela ker usay aapni razaaye bacha maan leti hain.... yeh buhut serious matter hain jesse kuch loug bena koi puray knowlagde k saath bana deti hain... I mean to say ager kessi ka maksad razaaye rishta banana na bhi ho tu bhi bena wajah k kessi k bache ko aapna doodh pelate hain ek he gher mei yeh bhi na sochte k yahi action baad mei jaker kitne casualities k bayes hosakte hain.. mai yaha pe ek story bayan kerna chahungi:
humare door k rishte daar mei ek larke ne aapni he cousin ko passand kiya tha for getting married aur shayed buhut chahta tha usay jub usne family se shadi ka derkhwast kiya with her then family ne kaha k tum donu ki shadi nahin hosakte because us larki ne tumhare ammi ka doodh piye hain so this marriage can not take place ju yeh baat us larke ko pata chala then usne buhut he bura haal kerdia tha khud ka and kafi time tuk usay ek sadma sa tha k jess larki ko chahta hain us se shadi nahin kersakta just because voh razaye bahen bun chuki the...tu yeh tha story but razaaye rishta kaunse sharayet pe banti hain yeh baat janna zaroori hain.... us mei sheer khwar bache ki kum se kum kitne age hone chahye plus voh aurat jho kessi aur bache ko raazaye bacha bana na chahte hain uski khud ki breast feeding ki age kitna hone chahye?? .....aur Islam es razaaye rishte k bare mei kia kahta hain???.. Humare gher mei tu esay acha nahin mana jata aur mere Baba kahte hain k kabhi zindagi mei kessi k saath razaat ka rishta nahin bana na chahye kia pata jess sheerkwaar bache k saat razaat kayem kerna chahte hain vohi kal ko jaker aapni razaat bahen k saath rishte k derkhwast kare jaise k yeh story bayan ki mai ne uske mutabek kahte hain... yeh baat sahi hain k ager koi bacha godh le tu usay doodh pela ker aapna razaaye bacha bana sakte hain but ese k baghair bhi loug bena zaroorat ki razaat ka rishta banate hain tu kia voh sahi hain??
So now mere khud ki es bare mei itne Ilm nahin mai ne jitne research ki us se genrally itna knowledge mela hain.
1: razzat k rishte k lie sheerkhwaar bache ka age kum se kum 2 saal ya phir 2.5 saal ka ho us se bade age k bache k saath razaat ka rishta kayem nahin hota...
2: Jho Aurat kessi aur k bache ko raazaye beta ya beiti banana chahte hain us aurat ki bhi breasfeeding age matlab voh khud bhi aam taur per aapni bache ko jho doodh pelati hain tu 2 ya 2.5 saal k ander he pela sakte hain us se ager zyada time tuk doodh pelaye tu usay kuch logu ne haram be tahraya hain and yeh bhi k es se zyada time k doodh pelani wali k saath razaat ka rishta nahin banta...tu mujhay nahin pata k 2 saal se zyada ager koi aapni bache ko doodh pelaye tu voh haram hain ager es baat ki wazahat hujae tu aur bhi achi hugi but aam taur per ek aurat serf 2.5 ya zyada se zyada 3 saal tuk bhi doodh produce kersakte hain tu us se zyada doodh maa k breast mei produce nahin huti...
3: razaat k rishte k lie kuch loug ne kaha hain k 3 baar bache ko doodh pulana chahye and kuch ne kaha hain k 5 baar pait bher ker bache ko dhood pelaye baki serf ek baar pelani se razaat ka rishta nahin ban sakti...
tu yeh the voh baate jho mere research k mutabek mela but Iam not sure k yeh kitna sahi hain tu abhi mujhay aap sub logu se in the light of Islam janna hain k razaat ka rishta kess sharayet pe banti hain and jho sawal mai ne poche hain about age and all unke bhi jawab with authenitc informations chahye ager hadith ya Quranic ayat se bayan hujae tu aur bhi behter hai...
ager mere sawal ya koi baat samajh na aye ho so sorry for that its just because my Urdu problem but the answers should be very accurate... because its not just a question but yeh kessi k lie kafi helpful bhi hosakte hain...
thank you
Asalam-o-alaikum Dear Members!!
aaj mai yaha pe buhut ahem sawal k bare mei pochna chahte hu jesske jawab buhut authentic and accurate accroding to the sheriah hona chahye...
I want to ask about Razaat yani razaaye rishta.. jess mei razaaye maa ya phir razaaye bacha hota hain jesse koi aurat aapna doodh pela ker usay aapni razaaye bacha maan leti hain.... yeh buhut serious matter hain jesse kuch loug bena koi puray knowlagde k saath bana deti hain... I mean to say ager kessi ka maksad razaaye rishta banana na bhi ho tu bhi bena wajah k kessi k bache ko aapna doodh pelate hain ek he gher mei yeh bhi na sochte k yahi action baad mei jaker kitne casualities k bayes hosakte hain.. mai yaha pe ek story bayan kerna chahungi:
humare door k rishte daar mei ek larke ne aapni he cousin ko passand kiya tha for getting married aur shayed buhut chahta tha usay jub usne family se shadi ka derkhwast kiya with her then family ne kaha k tum donu ki shadi nahin hosakte because us larki ne tumhare ammi ka doodh piye hain so this marriage can not take place ju yeh baat us larke ko pata chala then usne buhut he bura haal kerdia tha khud ka and kafi time tuk usay ek sadma sa tha k jess larki ko chahta hain us se shadi nahin kersakta just because voh razaye bahen bun chuki the...tu yeh tha story but razaaye rishta kaunse sharayet pe banti hain yeh baat janna zaroori hain.... us mei sheer khwar bache ki kum se kum kitne age hone chahye plus voh aurat jho kessi aur bache ko raazaye bacha bana na chahte hain uski khud ki breast feeding ki age kitna hone chahye?? .....aur Islam es razaaye rishte k bare mei kia kahta hain???.. Humare gher mei tu esay acha nahin mana jata aur mere Baba kahte hain k kabhi zindagi mei kessi k saath razaat ka rishta nahin bana na chahye kia pata jess sheerkwaar bache k saat razaat kayem kerna chahte hain vohi kal ko jaker aapni razaat bahen k saath rishte k derkhwast kare jaise k yeh story bayan ki mai ne uske mutabek kahte hain... yeh baat sahi hain k ager koi bacha godh le tu usay doodh pela ker aapna razaaye bacha bana sakte hain but ese k baghair bhi loug bena zaroorat ki razaat ka rishta banate hain tu kia voh sahi hain??
So now mere khud ki es bare mei itne Ilm nahin mai ne jitne research ki us se genrally itna knowledge mela hain.
1: razzat k rishte k lie sheerkhwaar bache ka age kum se kum 2 saal ya phir 2.5 saal ka ho us se bade age k bache k saath razaat ka rishta kayem nahin hota...
2: Jho Aurat kessi aur k bache ko raazaye beta ya beiti banana chahte hain us aurat ki bhi breasfeeding age matlab voh khud bhi aam taur per aapni bache ko jho doodh pelati hain tu 2 ya 2.5 saal k ander he pela sakte hain us se ager zyada time tuk doodh pelaye tu usay kuch logu ne haram be tahraya hain and yeh bhi k es se zyada time k doodh pelani wali k saath razaat ka rishta nahin banta...tu mujhay nahin pata k 2 saal se zyada ager koi aapni bache ko doodh pelaye tu voh haram hain ager es baat ki wazahat hujae tu aur bhi achi hugi but aam taur per ek aurat serf 2.5 ya zyada se zyada 3 saal tuk bhi doodh produce kersakte hain tu us se zyada doodh maa k breast mei produce nahin huti...
3: razaat k rishte k lie kuch loug ne kaha hain k 3 baar bache ko doodh pulana chahye and kuch ne kaha hain k 5 baar pait bher ker bache ko dhood pelaye baki serf ek baar pelani se razaat ka rishta nahin ban sakti...
tu yeh the voh baate jho mere research k mutabek mela but Iam not sure k yeh kitna sahi hain tu abhi mujhay aap sub logu se in the light of Islam janna hain k razaat ka rishta kess sharayet pe banti hain and jho sawal mai ne poche hain about age and all unke bhi jawab with authenitc informations chahye ager hadith ya Quranic ayat se bayan hujae tu aur bhi behter hai...
ager mere sawal ya koi baat samajh na aye ho so sorry for that its just because my Urdu problem but the answers should be very accurate... because its not just a question but yeh kessi k lie kafi helpful bhi hosakte hain...
thank you
mean.. k unko pata bhi nahi chala k ham nay aik hi jaga say doodh piya tha.. but vo baad m unko pata chal gia... us k baad vo voheen per hi reh gai.. sari zindgi esay hi guzaar di...aap log samjh gai hongay.... us k baad unki koi olaad nahi hui aaj tak..
